Loose Ends

Loose-Ends-2Life isn’t always neat and tidy. Every situation doesn’t necessarily receive obvious closure. However, there are many situations where we choose to leave things dangling. It’s these willingly unresolved issues that get in the way of individual progression.

These loose ends keep parts of us rooted in the past and only when we acknowledge them will we be free to move untethered.

Is there anyone whom you owe an apology? Is there money that you must repay? Could you relieve someone else by giving them a much needed explanation? Have you said “I love you” to those needing to hear it? Have you forgiven yourself? Are there promises you did not fulfill?

The list is endless for the ways in which we leave ourselves (and others) hanging. So ask yourself, which loose ends need to be tied up? What is within your capability to release once and for all?

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In Your Element

456752207Are you in the right place to do what you do best?

An eagle can’t fly underwater. A fish doesn’t swim through the air.

Too often we force ourselves to stay and fight in unnatural circumstances. Then, we wonder why things aren’t working.

One simple question.

Are you in your appropriate element?

Tweet this: Your freedom is elemental.

 

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Permission to Feel

fg0539It’s human nature to compare yourself to the next person. What we own, what we look like, who we know, what we do…the list is endless. Much of these things, we take far more seriously than necessary.

But we also compare our emotions which can be to our detriment. If you are feeling disappointment, sadness, or shame, it’s easy to write it off as not being as profound as the next person’s experience. For example, you may not want to divulge your grief over a breakup because it’s not as bad as someone having cancer.

Though it’s helpful to eventually gain perspective on your situation, that does not mean you must stifle your suffering. Unexpressed emotion becomes toxic.

It’s imperative that you find the middle ground between wallowing and denial. You must find an outlet – a trusted friend, a journal, a therapist – where you can let it go. Emotions are always telling you something about yourself and you always have a right to figure out what that is.

Tweet this: You have permission to feel whatever it is that you feel.

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Conviction and Belonging

How convicted are you about what you really want?

Can you make requests at your workplace about what suits you best? Can you ask your significant other for what you feel you need? Can you even admit out loud how much money you would like to have?

If you feel guilty, or shameful, or any other negative vibration, you are standing in your own way.

If we think about desire in terms of frequencies, it’s not as likely that you will receive what you want out of life, if you aren’t on the same frequency of the thing that you desire.

The Universe wants to match up things that go together. Simple.

To get what you want, you have to act and believe that its presence would be a natural occurrence.

Anything less is counterproductive and often antagonizing.

(Tweet this): What you desire has to feel like it belongs with you.

 

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Putting Yourself First

Self-EsteemJust a little reminder.

You have every right to enjoy yourself while you are here.

You are not a pawn for someone else’s gain.

You do not have to sacrifice your very being for any societal belief.

You are more than any earthly identity you choose to give yourself.

You are a Divine being with a purpose (or two, or three…).

You are worth your own precious time.

You are far more capable when you are nourished.

(Tweet this) Self-care is not self-ish.

What will you do today to treat yourself like the valuable being that you are?

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